Have you given up control and let them trap you?
Hereโs how to know.
Then you know you are trapped.
Glad to chat about your situation, your goals, and share some advice via this link:ย https://lnkd.in/eqP_7R4
There is no need to keep doing something that isnโt working.
If you are looking for a job and you spend 30 min per day looking for a job...you will continue to be looking for a job. Thereโs job search strategy to consider, and then there is also the issue of the basic force of effort.
I held this friend to a higher standard of himself and he did eventually put in the work and get a great job.
Watch yourself and if you see yourself falling into a rut, pull out or have friends who can help you.
As my teacher says: self-discipline is doing something even when you donโt want to do it.
๐๐ฃ ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ฃ ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ฃ๐๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐๐ก ๐จ๐ฉ๐ช๐๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐ช๐จ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฃ (LI). I got a question from a parent in China: is LI safe?
Her daughter was getting some messages that were not professional. The mom concluded that LI should not be used at all.
With 300m people on LI, LI reflects the broader society. There is good and bad. So, letโs use LI with a purpose, be professional and sidestep the bad stuff to get the results we want.
My mentees and I work through situations like this. I help apply a professional lens. People hire people, not resumes. We do need to meet people to get hired, and we need to be flexible with schedules + stay professional.
One female client connected to a manager at a famous company. That manager invited her for drinks and dinner. Drinks AND dinner? Red flag. Alarms went off. We had to respond cautiously.
Now, in NYC it is common to grab a drink after work. But I was fairly sure this guy was bad news.
I instructed her to say she had to keep it to a drink + that her friends wou...
I used to be an international student and it was complicated.
Online applications were tough. It used to be the case that "not hearing back" was the biggest issue but now it seems like from every angle and direction all this negative news about how hard it is for international students to get hired... it's like employers are playing games with us.
But, dear international student... stay engaged keep going, find a mentor to help you get hired. Stay engaged, keep going because I want you to be happy.
I'm Stuart. I've been there and I'm a career guide.
Book a free coaching call on my website.
www.jstuartbradley.com
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Fortune 50 campus recruiter (personally hires 200 people / yr): โIf there was one thing I could tell folks, it would be to not just network with me when you want something. Network with me when I am really bored.โ
Thatโs how Iโm approaching things with the reindeer.
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